*Warning*: Has rants on women. It’s not intentional and does not target anyone. It’s a rant. It’s an opinion that has been on my thought for sometime. This doesn’t make a misogynist, and I am NOT. It’s a mere observation and my inference from the same!
Oh but how can girls can really change the life of a human male!!! Are they doing it with the vile intention of causing harm to the friendship between two friends, or is it a repercussion as part of the attention seeking nature of theirs and the extremely fickle male brain.
God, why did you create girls? They are so beautiful, so fragile, so caring and at the same time so conniving, so sharp, cunning!! Grrrr… Why can’t all of them be like the normal human male, whose brain takes some time to mature!!
There are so many things I love about them, But they can be a serious pain. Sorta like the old adage “Can’t live with them. Can’t live without them!!”
What I really have come to hate, is how a lady can come in between friends, completely messing up the awesome life that these people led. They have torn their routine into tatters. They have created uncomfortable silences amongst people who have never had to think about what they are saying to the other person. It’s abominable.
I am _not_ saying that women are bad. It’s just that their nuance and feminity is a threat to friendship!!
The cool dude who was awesome to hang around with suddenly becomes a yuppie around her. The effervescent boy uses his entire resources in spending time with “her”. Gaming/sporting sessions turn into messaging or chatting over the internet. I have undergone the same feelings.
Mind you, this is coming from a guy who has crushes nineteen to the dozen!
Why? But Why?? [in the Terminator voice]
I dunno, but I wanna know. Anyone out there listening to me? I am open to a discussion!
@gurupanguji • Ramblings of an Eccentric Soul 
“What I really have come to hate, is how a lady can come in between friends, completely messing up the awesome life that these people led.”
— All I have to say in the defense of my gender is “Part fault for this also lies with the men; they actually let it happen in the first place.”
“The cool dude who was awesome to hang around with suddenly becomes a yuppie around her. The effervescent boy uses his entire resources in spending time with “her”. Gaming/sporting sessions turn into messaging or chatting over the internet.”
We never asked “the cool dude who was awesome to hang around with” to hang around around us all day.
We don’t want you to spend all your time with us…it’s a matter of your own choice. Actually speaking, it’s quite annoying to share our personal space with you 24×7, and we are only too polite not to rant about it 😛
The gaming/sporting sessions have to stop someday, how long will you be the boy who never grew up?
All said and done…we can blame it all on the adage that “Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus” 😀
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When u say a lady can come in between friends and completely mess up the awesome life that these people led how fragile is the life of those guys…this so called ‘cool dude’ gets carried away that easily?And u call this lady a serious pain?
Its not their nuance and feminity becoming a threat to friendship,its the lack of intellectual maturity on the cool dude’s side which is becoming a threat…
The effervescent boy who uses his entire resources in spending time with “her” is actually being tawdry about the whole deal ..
n after all this they say..”Why can’t all of them be like the normal human male, whose brain takes some time to mature!!
“….how stupefying!!!!
n u expect the lady also to do the same??
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To clear my part, I never intended it to blame the female gender, the fairer sex! It’s agreeably our fault as well :-D!!
Hahaha, unfortunately, I guess the person doesn’t realise it does he :-D!!
Anyhoo, whatever makes you say that (the)gaming and sporting sessions have to stop someday…?
No, why should it? Don’t men play? What would you rather us do?
…how long will you be the boy who never grew up?
Maybe that’s it. I don’t wanna grow up! I have seen so many heartbreaks, to both the people, when people aren’t mature enough to handle the stress, the commitment, LOVE!!!
If relationships are so complex, I don’t wanna grow up! If relationships take so much of your time from you, in which you find that you can’t mingle with people the way you used to, with an added person, I say, “Waaaaahhhh, mummy, I wanna be a kid forever”!!
However, unfortunately, I have grown up a bit too fast. In the past 2 years. :-D!! What I wouldn’t give to get back to where I was…
However, good things have come outta it. I am actually chatting with a person who I wouldn’t exactly mind having a conversation with.
I am not and won’t generalise this incident. It was a rant as presented by the disclaimer! Ok, and one more thing I guess I’d admit would be that it was kinda disheartening. Disheartening when his friend realised that such a good friend has split his time he used to spend with him to spend with the female. He’s changing, morphing, no no, make that MUTATING [Coz I, personally don’t like the change]. [Altho, I love the mutants in Xmen k :-p!]
And yeah, as you said, it’s probably just the “Men are from mars and Women are from Venus” syndrome. :-)!!
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@ Lax: whoa lax!! How come…. Awesome. Hey this is getting interesting, really interesting. Prolly one of the most controversial posts eh 😉
Btw Lax, this is your second comment in my entire blog!! How you kutta? And hey, don’t take this personally, it’s just a guy’s rant!! I am thankful for the insight and the flaw in the logic of my thinking.
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No way, gaming sessions arent meant to stop! Sport/games was invented by men, for men! We cannnot not play! 😀
Btw, Guru
If you think relationships change some people, wait until some of them get married.
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Dude, just saw the radical change with my own friend! It’s a radical change man! That guy’s changed beyond recognition!! I mean, WHOA!! HUMONGOUS!! :-P!
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i agree!!!!! ( .. what are we talking about..??? ) anyways.. as i have come to realize ze world b a better place –
1) if there were no women!
2) if they hafta be .. y cant they just be lik guys!
[p.s] i am straight!!!!!
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he he.. and H-dAWG would have quoted – “They so high maintenance!! ” man … they surely dont say “lifez a bitch fa nothing…!!!” :D!!!!
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I see that this post of yours has been quite controversial 🙂
Keep them coming…
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“If relationships are so complex, I don’t wanna grow up! If relationships take so much of your time from you, in which you find that you can’t mingle with people the way you used to…”
Hey Pangs…how easy an escape???Wats wrong in having a strong relationship in which the guy is also mature enuff 2 handle both in a smart way?Dont think relationships will be that complex with smart people…
“when people aren’t mature enough to handle the stress, the commitment, LOVE!!!”..
These ‘cool dudez” better not grow up…carry on with gaming n sporting..hehe..but its again an escape…
“unfortunately, I have grown up a bit too fast. In the past 2 years”…seems like lack of confidence..
no way Pangs…things like the disheartening incidents r not much…hehe
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Exactly my point lax, I haven’t talked about NOT having a relationship. I said, if it’s too complex, there is definitely something wrong!! That’s the whole point :-D!
It’s not an escape! It’s a way to just stay outta the “Ring of Fire” as coined by G-Dawg 😉
Well… yeah… maybe… I don’t have a reply :-D!! Maybe I will talk about that with you personally :-D!!
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Ya Pangs…staying outta the ‘Ring of Fire’..isnt it a sort of escapism??
This sounds as though u r scared to stay anywhere near the fire..
neways I know u r not a misogynist…so its k…
Hey…2day I am bored….u hav work??
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Haha, not exactly! You say that only because you aren’t aware of the concept called “Ring of Fire”! :-D! Anyhoo.. Was on training till now. How come no work for you? :O Shocking… Really…
Hey, I have been in the ring of fire, and probably always will be in the ring of fire, because some people would never tell me stuff :-P! Btw, when are you gonna tell me the stuff ;-)!! I will be leaving soon.
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